I'm looking to meet bi or bi curious submissive women with interest/experience in BDSM for friendly play, and or just friendship with an open mind for it to go further if it is meant to be. Ultimately I would like someone to belong to me in a relationship that is a mixture of exploration in D/s, B&D and S&m. Keep in mind that while BDSM is important and even necessary to me, it is not the only defining point to my ideal relationship. There must be common interests, compatibility and communication (musicians get a thousand bonus points!). For me, there must be mutual trust, and my partner must be able to openly tell me limits, wants, needs and desires. I?m patient and caring; a person can feel safe in my care. I am active in the local BDSM community in San Diego and I can provide references.

My Ideal Person:
Who I'm looking for? I?ll know when I find her and hopefully so will she. I won't settle for anything less than a complete partnership, nor will she. We'll bring out the best in each other.

Virgo